OK - I am almost done talking about cloth diapers. The thing is, a couple people have asked me questions recently that have prompted a few more things to share. So here they are.
BEWARE: If you are squeamish about things like poopies touching your skin, stop reading now. You have been warned.Now. I realize I have been a bit Pollyana-ish about the effort required for cloth diapers. I admit, boldly, that there are days I put off sticking my hands in a bucket of dirty diapers until you can't bear to stand anywhere in the upstairs due to the odor emanating from Little P's bedroom. I also admit to strategically using disposables (keep reading). But in the end, even when I have to take a break from them for 24 hours, I'm still a woman of the cloth. This belief keeps me going in the midst of more convenient options shouting at me from the baby sections of every store I enter.
A few bits of advice:
1. If you are a cloobie or a netoloth (cloth+newbie or new+to+cloth, your pick) and you don't call yourself (or catch others calling you) a "granola," go easy on yourself. (Tangent: I do not call myself a granola. But I once walked in on someone describing me to some teenagers as "that hippie girl." Ha ha. Real hippies would find me quite conventional, I'm sure.) Start by swapping out two diapers a day and work your way up from there. (I suggest not choosing the poopy time of day for the swap).
2. For cloobies, netoloths, and those of us who sometimes need a break to stay motivated, figure out when your angel drops a load. Hopefully, you will find that there is a regular time of day that this occurs. If not, you probably could schedule your baby's feedings for more regularity (if old enough, of course), or maybe you are just introducing new foods and it's unavoidable (as in the constipation associated with starting an infant on rice cereal...we are experiencing this right now). So, once you know that 10-11 AM tends to be the dirty hour, use a disposable at that time. Keep this going as long as you need to as you adapt to increased laundry loads and dealing with poopies more personally.
3. Poopies. I have experience with two types of diapers, so I will tell you what I do.
Prefolds - I usually don't use these during the poopy hour, but if a poopy occurs, I let it dry a little bit and shake as much of it off into the toilet. Flush. Stick the diaper
and my hands in the bowl and rub the poopy sides together until the solids all come off. You do not have to get everything out, but the solids gotta go. You don't want them floating around in your washing machine. (Ewwwww.) Keep wipes or something nearby for the toilet handle in case you have a poopy water hand when you...
anyway.
BumGenius pocket diapers - These are pretty awesome for poopies. I let them sit for a day. Poopy will dry up and start to peel away from the fabric on the edges all by itself. Go to the toilet, use toilet paper to peel the poopy off, or sometimes you can just move around the fabric from behind and it will fall off. Depending on how bad the poopy is, you may have to flush and rinse, or you may be able to just toss it in the wash. Really depends on the poopy. Even if you do have to rinse, you will be amazed at how well the poopy comes off the wicking fabric.
Be careful not to agitate the water in the toilet too much when you rinse as it might splash up and hit you in the face. You would be amazed at how little agitation is required to do that.
4. Detergent. You have to be careful about detergent build up - it reduces absorbency. So here is where your all natural, eco-friendly, dye-free, fabric softener free detergents come in handy. If you are already using this stuff, you don't have to buy a special baby detergent. Even so (and BTW Trader Joe's is the WORST of the bunch for soap that just won't come out), you will still need multiple washes. I have an HE washer that uses much less water so I do an extra cycle (3-4). If you have a standard washer, you may get away with fewer washes (2). (I think my HE uses about 16 gallons of H2O to wash, whereas the standard regular washer uses 40 gallons. Thus, when I say I have to do three cycles - even four on occasion, it is still less water than two cycles in the non-HE washer...so please don't get unnerved when I talk about four cycles.)
First - I rinse. Usually I do this by hand, wetting the diapers down and squeezing out the potty by hand. It also means pulling all the parts out of the pocket diapers. I drop them in a bucket with a scoop of baking soda (get a huge bag from one of those bulk stores) and hot water. I let them sit until I have a break in my laundry long enough to deal with the three-four cycles I do. If I prerinse by hand I don't do it in the cycle. If I don't then I add an extra rinse before washing. I do (on the heavy wash cycle): 1 - hot H2O with a tiny bit of laundry soap and vinegar in the bleach tank. 2. cold H2O with even less soap and lots of vinegar in the bleach tank. 3. A heavy, cold load with no soap and a little vinegar. Then I pull out a liner and mash it around looking for that soap sound. If I hear if, they get washed again without soap. Sigh. I'm not sure I would recommend an entry-level HE if you are a woman of the cloth. Maybe one of those expensive heavy-duty ones, but not a basic Kenmore. If you have a non-HE washer, you can probably do two heavy cycles with extra rinses. You might even forego the detergent on the second wash.
4. Night time - I bought two Hemp Babies liners (super absorbent) to add to the regular liners of the pocket diapers at night. I only use one at a time, but I have two so that I am not forced to wash it within 24 hours. (I'm lazy like that.) As for prefolds...the BumGenius diapers come with two sizes of liner - the newborn size, and the expandable size. I, of course, use the expandable in the pockets, but the newborn ones make a great extra liner inside a prefold. I just put in where the thicker part is to give it a boost. Otherwise, prefolds get soaked so fast. The BumGenius diapers last Benjamin 3-4 hours before he feels the wetness. The prefolds only take an hour or so. (Good for potty training, I've heard, because the child knows he's wet and is able to associate the feelings with potty.)
5. No matter what you use, line dry them in the sun whenever possible. For one, it is the surest way to get them looking sparkly white again. Two, it reduces/eliminates the pee smell that can build up over time. Three, and this is probably why number two occurs, UV light actually kills bacteria and sterilizes things (including dust mites - it "inactivates" their DNA, or something like that).
I feel so free using the BumGenius diapers (when I'm not washing them). If I need to go out, and Little P has already done his poopy for the day, I don't need to take spare accessories along. (Note: he's on a feeding schedule so I can time it so that I have a good 3-4 hours before needing a diaper or a bottle). His diaper really keeps him comfortable that long. And I have only had a leak twice - once, when I accidentally left it on for 12 hours (don't ask). And the second time because I got some fabric tucked in around the edge and so the liquid followed the fabric trail on out to his clothes. Not bad, eh?
Finally, my primer on diapering is done. For those of you starting this adventure, add your stories here!