November 30, 2010

How we're approaching Christmas

I know that in the history of holy days, a number of those claimed by Christianity were once owned by pagans.  It's a human irony...that something once belonged to the goddess of fertility, or to the witches, or to the worship of some lunar mystery, only to be co-opted by religious zealots.  We do this all the time, we humans...conquer somebody else's something:  land, name, resources, language, culture, infrastructure, banking system, business.  We buy out and change. Or wage war on and change.

It's all a bit sad and funny at the same time.  But whatever.  In the current era, some of us use the occasion of Christmas to celebrate the birth of Christ. It's symbolic all the way, but that's OK.  This is the time that we do it.

In honor of that, I will be starting an advent tradition in our home. We have not done this before, though I have always wished for more peace, more focus on the One who should matter most, the One who gets shoved behind the tree or lodged under piles of wrapping paper only to be rediscovered as I am vacuuming up pine needles and wondering how I missed Him this year, yet again, despite my best intentions.

We will not be forgetting Him this December. He is too precious. I want my son to know how precious the Christ is, and he'll never know if I do not first lay aside my holiday idols and bring my gifts to His feet. For my son, as all children do, learns most powerfully from my example.

So we will start with a daily observance of Advent - the time of waiting, of expecting, of hoping for the God of the universe to meet us humans where we're at...wrapped in limited, meager bodies, wracked with ailments and fears and the annoying ability to mess everything up even when we're trying our darndest to do everything right.

We are using an advent resource from Ann Voskamp, writer and blogger. If you would like to get this free booklet for yourself, you can go to this page. You will need to subscribe to her blog and wait one day for the next feed (the link is included at the end of the feeds).

We will include in our readings The Jesus Storybook Bible, which is one of the best tellings of the story of God that I know. It also has some beautiful art in it; I'm a sucker for pretty illustrations. If you wish to teach your young ones about God, and not just a bunch of apparently disconnected stories in a musty old book, get this.  Now.  It has helped me see the Bible in a whole new light; it's that good.

Finally, I can't help but share with you a bit of writing by Ann Voskamp. She has written out what we believe in the most beautiful language. For the original context, or to read more of her, visit her web site: A Holy Experience.


I believe in Jehovah God who created the whirling galaxies, the birds soaring in the sky overhead, the endless crashing waves and all that dances within them. I believe in Father of all who knits together life, made in His very own image, in the secret quiet of our beings.

I believe in Jesus Christ, the One with no earthly Father, with the dust of this earth between His toes, and with our names etched onto the palm of His hands, right beneath the nail scars…Who now sits at the Father’s right hand making endless intercession on our behalf. I believe in the stone rolled away, in the Body being raised, in the first fruits of the dead…and us all following soon, very soon.

I believe in the Cross as our only Hope, our only Claim, and our only Foundation. I believe that in the pounding surf of life we have only one thing to cling to: the feet of our Lord, hanging on that tree, His lifeblood flowing down, washing us whiter than snow.

I believe in the Holy Spirit, moving, whispering, indwelling our very skin. I believe in living by the Spirit, walking in the Spirit, and producing fruit in the Spirit…in the Spirit who helps us in our weakness with groanings that can’t be expressed in words.

I believe in the infallibility of the Bible, God’s Word – a sure Word, a pure Word, the only secure Word. I believe the words on those pages are breathed from the very throne room of heaven, are the love letter penned from the heart of the Lover of our souls; a beacon of light for stumbling feet to find sure footing on a dark path.

I believe there is more than believing. There is living what I believe.

November 28, 2010

Here's how we spent Thanksgiving


Sledding down the hill outside the cabin

boy with chapped cheeks

cold

happy.

November 23, 2010

Thanksgiving

We wish for you unlimited puddles for splashing in,


the brightest flowers for sharing with the ones you love,


and the best big sticks to aid you on your adventures.


Have a Happy Thanksgiving.

November 19, 2010

Safety First

Little P is riding his bike around the house. (The benefits of having too much space and lame wood laminate floors.)  Suddenly...

LP: Reeaaahhhhh!  Schreeeeeaaahhh! Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!

Mama:  You sound very upset. What's wrong?

LP:  I have a problem!

Mama:  You do?  What's your problem?

LP: It's a problem of keeping me safe.

Mama:  What's making you not safe?

LP:  I goed into the baffroom!

Mama: Why is the bathroom not safe?

LP:  It's not safe for me!

Mama: Oh. What happened in the bathroom?

LP: It's just not safe!

Mama: I'm sorry. Are you OK?

LP: Yeah. I'll be all right in a minute.

Mama:  Do you need some help?

LP:   I got it. 

Rides his bike over by Mama.

LP:  There. I parked it.


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November 12, 2010

We're Expecting

Baby girl, due March 4th!

Yesterday we met the birthparents of our next child. For now I will call them A and R. They are young, sweet, strong, talented, and down-to-earth. We appreciated their "realness" which is funny because that is something that drew them to us while reading our letter.  They feel very certain of their choice to go the adoption route. We feel lucky to be adding them to our lives ('cause we know open adoption brings more relationships into our lives than just the baby).

Let the celebrating begin!  There will certainly be several points along the way to celebrate.

So what happens next?  Well, we begin by getting to know each other better...we'll have them over for dinner soon so they can meet Benjamin and then go from there. We've got a few months to hang out and grow a friendship.

Getting to know each other is up to us. Sarah will only facilitate meetings where we talk about stuff like A and R's desires for the time in the hospital, or as we dive more into what we all expect regarding openness, that sort of thing.

I have started on the baby room - picking out paint colors and figuring out how to arrange the furniture.  I need to refinish a dresser. I bought a cool old hanging lamp from an estate sale, but it needs some serious cleaning and maybe replacing the chain. Because I waited too long to return some curtains from IKEA, I am planning to use them and just dye them to match the color scheme. We have these really plain, ugly closet doors for which I have an idea that involves modpodge and scrapbook paper...fun, fun!

More to come, of course!

November 3, 2010

Goals are Good

This morning, over his bowl of cottage cheese, Benjamin told me a few things he'd like to do in the near future:

LP:  I want to go to school. I want to ride a bus and go to school.

Mama:  That sounds great. You will get to do that when you're a little older.

LP: I'm big.

Mama:  Yes, you are.

LP:  I want to play football. I'm big. I can play football.

(pause)

LP:  I want to write some letters for Mom.

Mama: Cool!

(pause)

Mama:  What else do you want to do?

LP:  (picks up toy stringed instrument from Africa and begins strumming it) I'm playing my guitar!